Story about love… (unfinished writings)
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Love…
im inspired for writing this topic after seeing this picture… the symbol of love… Cupid…
Wondering why I like this picture a lot, it make me browse trought the net n try to read all relted story…, the story begins with the Goddess Venus’s jealousy and envious to the beauty of a mortal woman named Psyche, and after that asked her son, Cupid the other Roman God that represents Love n Sex… to use his golden arrows to cause Psyche to fall in love with the ugliest man on earth. Cupid agreed but then fell in love with Psyche on his own, or by accidentally pricking himself with a golden arrow… hehehehe… do its a gift or a tragic… just define ur self kay…
One Cross my mind… if… just like the myth said or told us… that god can envy us… and also God may fell in luv with us… uuughhhh… which god u prefer then… hehehe… I ever heard this sentences “do you know, why God envy us? Because we are mortal, life, death, and love may only happen once in our live… so we always placed it in the honour way”
Back to Topic… at the beginning… gw Cuma mau buat papar pendek tentang banyak tulisan, wacana, literature yang menulis menganai cinta… dari mulai paparan religius, mitos, ilmiah, hingga hanya sekedar gambaran ilustrasi… so can we start with thinking about the word “Love”… the phenomena about… how sudden love can change people from one point to another… sumtime u just cant wonder how can we get trough in some conditions… but we succeeds…
A Lot of aspect related to the theory of Love… that’s also the main reason I try to Browse the definitions of this words…
“Love is an intense feeling of affection related to a sense of strong loyalty or profound oneness” … Wow… Great definitions for me… but is it really exist… hmmm… suddenly I really wanna share my prayers, every time pronounce the words *while bound to my knees* I have my prayers… “God let me be the lucky one forever… with “my one” as I do have right now as a miracle “she is”…”
Love… and… Marriage…
“an interpersonal relationship with governmental, social, or religious recognition, usually intimate and sexual, and often created as a contract, or through civil process.”
Love made legally as a contract, in one act name marriage… for the impact of social and religious frame… Every word, every action, every condition etc… that I’m doing in the frame of Holy Marriage… I believe it will lead me to the most obligations and responsibility to my Society, Morale and the Most… to God…
What a miracle for becoming the leader in one family, made me do a lot of recheck for my last habitual manner to be implied to my soulpartner, and it is really hard… I admit, sumtimes it also fight inside… but thank to the Logical point of view… I try to loose some tension… I believe it just an nervous tension as a rookie…
Many Books and literature I try to analyze… mostly tells about the Psychological effect and Philosophy for a Love and marriage… But I forgot to see it from the perspective of Religions, In Al`Quran Allah already revealed… in Surah Ar Rum… pada dasarnya cinta seorang laki-laki kepada wanita dan cinta wanita kepada laki-laki… ialah suatu hal manusiawi… hal yang lahir dari fitrah yang dikaruniakan oleh Allah Subhanallohu wa Ta’ala di dalam jiwa manusia, secuil potongan kapasitas cinta milik Allah SWT yang dianugerahkan kepada umatnya…. hingga mencapai kesempurnaan dalam bentuk penyatuan dua insan dalam ikatan pernikahan…. satu bentuk pencapaian kematangan pikiran dan fisik tuk melangkah menjalin satu ikatan yang sakral dan suci, tuk saling membagi dan mengisi satu sama lain. Mengutip Firman Allah SWT, yang artinya: “Dan diantara tanda-tanda kekuasaan-Nya adalah Dia menciptakan untukmu istri-istri dari jenismu sendiri, supaya kamu cenderung dan merasa tentram kepadanya , dan dijadikan-Nya diantara kamu rasa kasih sayang. Sesungguhnya pada yang demikian itu benar- benar terdapat tanda-tanda bagi kaum yang berfikir” (QS. Ar Rum: 21)
Subhanallah… yang maha kuasa menempatkan satu kata “rasa kasih sayang” untuk dipadankan dengan “tanda orang yang berfikir”… pa lagi Cinta yang dianugerahkan kepada umat adalah sebagian rasa yang dimiliki oleh Allah SWT… dalam artian Religius Cinta amat lah sakral, bahkan bagian dari Ibadah…
Gw pengen banget, to have live in full love frame… i believe one day it will come, coz im going for it right now, and i can feel it
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